25 10 / 2011
Sharing for Grown-Ups: 5 Ways Skill Sharing Helps You
to share: (v.) to use, participate in, enjoy, receive, etc., jointly
We have (hopefully) been taught to share since legos, play-doh, and our toes – in that order- were the most desirable things to put in our mouths. Now that we are more or less grown-ups with more sophisticated tastes (omelets, asparagus, someone else’s toes), where does this childhood concept of sharing fit into our adult economies of Time=Money and Keeping up with the Joneses? Who has the time/money/goodwill to share something they have with someone else?
5 ways sharing your skills helps you:
1) Sharing makes friends. Your mom was right. As an act of cultivating community, sharing builds relationships between individuals and thus necessarily raises the relationship capital of both parties - you make friends. Now you can bond with Mr. Jones over learning his recipe for Killer Kick-Off Chili, even if his kid does go to a more expensive preschool than yours does.
2) Everyone wins. Especially with skill sharing, you raise the ability of those with whom you have formed a relationship. Your community has become better and more able. When you share your gardening tips with Mrs. Jones and her friends, the whole neighborhood becomes a more beautiful place.
3) You are the expert. When you teach a class or share a skill, your peers recognize you as an authority on the topic. This respect may even result in leads or referrals for your business. Are you an accountant? Share some great tax tips, your neighbors will think of you next time they – or people they know- are looking for professional financial guidance.
4) Favors come back around. No harm in throwing some good will out into the universe. For the time that you spend teaching Mrs. Jones how to change her tire so she doesn’t get stranded in rural Wisconsin again, she will likely spend equal time in the future teaching you how to organize your inbox (yes, 976 unopened emails is too many.)
5) You have nothing to lose. A skill is not lessened when shared. In fact, the proverbial two minds instead of one will likely increase the teacher’s ability as well. You never had a golfing buddy until you taught Mr. Jones the secrets to your signature swing. Now he is almost as good as you, and the competition is making you better every day.
So the next time you are practicing your skills all by yourself, or are all alone and wishing you were practicing your skills with someone, think about ways you can maximize what you have by sharing it. Make friends, get smarter, and it doesn’t cost a dime. Just ask the Joneses.
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